Friday, August 26, 2011

Sasha, Julio, Olivia and Dania are back!

The Spaniards have made their way back home and are crashing Dudu and Nina's house while Julio translates his Spanish law degree into English. Olivia turns two on July 18 and has grown into a real person since we saw her last summer. Dania is just five months and looks like a copy of her adorable big sister, so far. Sasha and Julio are tired, but happy to be here. Ethan fell in fast love with Olivia the moment he laid eyes on her and the two lovebirds were off together like an old married couple. They had so much fun on the newly erected trampoline and even managed to get a date of cereal in before the evening was through.

































Monday, August 15, 2011

Nothing

This was the first week all summer long when we didn't have to be anywhere, anytime, at all.  It was sublime.  No camp, no swimming, no trips, no visits, no appointments, NOTHING!  A true vacation.  We slept in all week, started each leisurely morning with an episode (or two) of Curious George in bed, and since E and C are now able to prepare a cereal breakfast from start to finish on their own (which is great for many reasons, mainly of course because H and I get a few extra minutes in bed), my mornings went from stress to bliss.

We spent a lot of time with our Montessori work this week and both Ethan and Camryn are concentrating for longer periods, growing in all areas, and most importantly, really enjoying the process!  We literally lost track of time working many days this week and they impressively kept themselves busy and engaged for two to three consecutive hours each day.  Ethan's behavior during these work periods is perfect, confirming yet again the genius of Montessori.  I only wish it were easier to make our whole house a "prepared environment" and myself a perfect role model all the time.

Ethan could hardly wait for his new iron to arrive, watching for it every day, and he ironed everything he could get his hands on when it finally did come (a few days later than expected).  It took him a little while to figure out the pressure he needed to use and the steam feature, but once he did, his technique was flawless.  I don't remember the last time I ironed anything--which speaks to my stay-at-home-mom wardrobe and its urgent need for an upgrade!  Ethan showed particular interest in math this week and practiced working with the teen beads.  He definitely seems to have a knack for numbers and mathematical concepts and is much more drawn to those materials than language/art at this point.  I don't want to push him.  He is SO ready to read, yet he's just not interested, not in any real way, not yet.  Another new interest has been in maps, roads and general geography.  He always wants to know the name of the road we're on and in what direction we're traveling, and he seems to recognize a place and its relative location even if we've only been there once before.  He's always had an uncanny sense of direction; I remember how stunned we were when he directed us home at age two!  He loves to watch the GPS and loves to berate me the second I miss or opt for a different route.  Anyway, a few days ago he decided to make his very own continent map by push-pinning each continent, glueing, labeling, painting and making his mama oh-so-proud with a beautiful finished piece (even though it's all about the process!).  

Camryn LOVES practical life work - polishing, folding napkins, scooping, pouring, squeezing, beading, etc.  It's so fun to watch her scrunch her little face with focus and refine her little hands with every tiny turn of her wrist.  She is fiercely self-directed and independent and the biggest challenges are 1) getting her to watch a presentation in it's entirety before jumping in herself and 2) cleaning up when she's finished with an activity.  She learns quickly and easily and is curious and enthusiastic about EVERYTHING, especially anything that Ethan is doing.  But, unlike her big brother, Cami is very drawn to language and in addition to an incredible vocabulary she already knows all of the letter sounds (and has for the past six months at least).  She might be close to reading and writing and was very proud of writing a most beautiful "m" this week.

In between all the work, we did manage to squeeze in a magic dragon ride, plenty of play around the neighborhood, a swim at Walden Pond, a playground date and even a journey aboard a pirate ship! AHOY, MATEY!


pirate #1

pirate #2

pattern blocks

metal inset

dragon!

sweeping

I'll push you, but I'll need to keep my snack close!

ironing





rings

tea party

I'm going to make "m"

I did it!

Look at my "m"!  I'm so proud!
handwashing in the nude (it was HOT!!)

excavating toys from ice

breakfast!

Ethan's continent map


sorting

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

UGH

I've not been inspired to write much these days. Probably because Camryn has been plagued by some grotesque rash (given to her by Ethan) and Ethan by some grotesque behavior (developed totally on his own) for what feels like weeks now. Also, ever since our new neighbors moved in across the street, we don't see much of the kids anymore. Between Margot's (2 doors downs across the street), Hattie's (next door), Emily and Gracie's (2 doors down),  and now Ava and Bella's house (directly across), Ethan rarely wants to be home and is running between his six "ladies" all day long.  It's really quite something.  A heartbreaker at just five!!

I've been at my wits' end with his behavior and in desperation, even ordered a scam parenting program in a late-night-infomercial moment-of-weakness. It's surprisingly been slightly insightful and I am newly committed to being more consistent and firm vis-a-vis Ethan's behavior, and it's appropriate consequences. I'm also finding that the more we revisit our Montessori activities and I help both kids engage in purposeful work, the better for all of us. They have been helping more around the house and doing more for themselves (preparing and cleaning up meals, laundry, dusting/cleaning, making the bed, arranging flowers, self-help skills, etc.) and seem to enjoy and appreciate the responsibility. We even washed some towels with an old-fashioned washboard and basin, and made our very own fresh detergent by grating a bar of soap and mixing in a little borax. The sh*t really works!  Ironing board has been ordered and should arrive tomorrow!
rash

rash stage 2

just a cute one

building with Bella

drilling with Ava

snack
two beauties



food prep 

table set for breakfast

feeding Buzz

Kiri and Jeff
pizza with Lily